a woman meets the perfect man and Falls head over heels in love but he’s not interested or he’s not interested enough not in the way that you want him to be not in the way that you are interested in him and you’re thinking hey wait a minute like I’m pretty I’m kind I’m intelligent I pay my taxes on time so what’s the problem how come his feelings don’t match mine and the answer is simple you haven’t built an emotional connection with him and.
I’ll say that again you haven’t built an emotional connection with him my name Ismael Gomez I’m a coach writer and speaker and I’m here to tell you ladies that if you want to make a man fall for you okay you have to hit him behind his chest plate you have to build a bridge between your heart and his and if you want to know how you’re at the right place stick around because in this video I will share all the tools that you need to emotionally connect with a man and make him want you now before I go into into it it’s important to know that this guide isn’t about manipulating someone’s feelings or playing games it’s about fostering a genuine connection built on mutual respect and open communication okay so let’s begin to start the video.
I want you to think about this imagine you building a bridge with a man okay the two of you together and as you constructing this bridge both of you are on your phone both of you are watching TV both of you’re doing 20 other things and still thinking well yeah we’re building this bridge so when it comes to spending quality time together okay yes you can both watch Netflix uh you know work in a project cook dinner but certain times you just need to sit down and build the bridge and by that I mean deep conversations I mean slowing down physical intimacy enjoying moments of silence and I’m going to show you right now how you struggle with this without even knowing.
I bet since this video started okay you probably looked down at the comment section or maybe you checked your phone a couple of times or you’ve been distracted by something else in your environment so right now at this moment I want you to give me your full attention Okay look into my eyes right now for 10 seconds drop everything else and.
I want you to stare right here in complete silence starting now that’s it now be honest how many thoughts did you have in those 10 seconds like your mind just wanted to switch to something else and probably you even felt uncomfortable so ladies to create that closeness that emotional connection you want with a men you need to do weekly practices at least once a week where you can create moments of deep focus on each other now both of you doing an activity now I know what you’re probably thinking yeah is Ismael that sounds great but if.
I tell a man to do any of these things he’s going to laugh in my face and call me bizarre and all right I get it but this is where being a coach actually becomes useful because I already know what works and what doesn’t and something you need to understand about men is that we love a challenge okay so if you’re talking to a guy or you’re in a relationship this is what you can do you tell him that you saw a video online saying that most men cannot hold eye contact with a woman in silence for a minute and you want to see if he can do it if you word it as a challenge okay.
I promise you that 99% of men will be like oh yeah I can do that no problem and then you get to experience that with him do you know what’s the most unattractive quality in a man is when he’s wasting your time when he gives you mixed signals the moment you feel that you need to chase him for attention that should be the biggest turnoff for you now here’s the interesting part you’re not chasing this man you’re chasing the emotional state you experience when you’re with him so what you do is you learn to create those feelings within you and then you attract someone who matches them for my second point.
I want to focus on something that may trigger some of you and is this you can be the most beautiful woman in the world okay intelligent kind great smile but if you constantly create a lot of drama in your relationship you won’t be able to keep a man around and if you do get to keep him okay it’ll be a weak man that doesn’t know how to put his foot down and you feel miserable knowing that you have an incompetent guy by your side now this is not to say that you should avoid conflict or tension in your relationship right because those are part of the Dynamics however if you still confused here’s a great tip to know the difference between drama.
And tension drama usually focuses on demanding while tension focuses on expressing here’s an example imagine you want him to give you flowers every now and then because you like that all right so one method is that you say hey why don’t you ever buy me flowers you should get me flowers every week demanding right and that may work in the short term what eventually happens is that he will stop doing that behavior on the other hand if you say hey I like when you bring me flowers I find that so attractive when.
I see you do it because what usually happens is that if you say that is that now he thinks flowers means being more attractive and who doesn’t want to be more attractive also a little secret if you want to go the extra mile say that it turns you on I mean if you really want a man to pay attention you need to speak our language okay say something like Hey whenever I see you enter the door with flowers in your hands it just it just totally turns me on like I never seen such a sexy man try that and see what happens you can thank me later all right ladies so for our final Point let’s go back to the bridge analogy okay and let me give you this comparison.
And see what you think imagine you are one side of a mountain and there are two men on the other side who need to build a bridge to reach you now the first man he spends months building a strong and secure Bridge so you can walk on it with him if needed okay while the second man he just quickly builds a wooden bridge that doesn’t cost him much time and effort but he does the job to get him to the other side and here’s the question if there were a crisis in the relationship like I said you know if there was Heavy Rain windy days which man will be more likely to walk away and say you know what who cares about this woman like this bridge only took me 2 days to build whatever I can go.
And find someone else or the man who spent months building his bridge and now he thinks twice before letting that investment go to waste so what does that mean it means that you need to learn how to make men invest in you you need to let them invest their time and energy to get what they want so if he wants your affection your sweetness your body you need to make sure that he also shows effort.
I cannot even tell you the amount of messages I get on Instagram of women telling me that men are constantly asking them for money and they feel used and listen let me tell you something even in the moments that I’ve been broke without a single penny in my pocket if I needed $40 to put gas in my car I would rather go on the streets and sew shoes than to go to my woman to ask her for money I mean even if I was in a bed dying in a hospital.
I will call other people first before asking her all right so now that you know how to build a bridge between Hearts I hope that you find a man worth Crossing that bridge for that’s it for today ladies thank you so much for subscribing to my channel it really means a lot to me that You’ chosen me to learn about dating love and relationship Dynamics because like I always say for your relationships to change you need to change have a beautiful day.
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